BPC #2: HOW TO GET YOUR LOVED ONE OUT OF BED

BPC SERIES: A 9-Part Series on BEING a PRIMARY CAREGIVER (BPC)

Approximately 43.5 million caregivers have provided unpaid care to an adult or child in the last 12 months. *

This series is dedicated to the heart and soul of this informal, unpaid, caregiving group, the primary caregivers. Silver Lining is dedicated to a healthier Delaware by using our expertise to empower a group of incredible people to give their loved ones the best care possible. What is a Primary Caregiver? A primary caregiver is the title given to anyone that is primarily (first-up) responsible for caring and providing for another living thing. A primary caregiver could be:the sole available person caring for anotherthe person who cares for another in the primary role (and has additional support people)the individual who lives with the person that needs cared forUltimately, a primary caregiver is responsible for making sure that the person they’re caring for gets the support and care they need. Our goal with the BPC Series is to support this amazing group of primary caregivers with resources, shout outs and access. We see you and we are here for you.

Getting safely in and out of bed, or doing transfers of any kind, can be physically taxing. Our resident nurses, Tiffany and Amy, offer these steps in learning the ropes:

Step 1: Determine what kind of assistance your loved one can provide you. Typically, it’s one of the following: 

• Independent – no assistance is needed
• Partial assist – light assistance is needed (i.e., to get the feet to the edge of the bed, to get them sitting up)
• Dependent – your loved one can’t get out of bed without someone helping the entire time

Step 2: Determine what kind of weight-bearing capability your loved one has. 

• Full weight-bearing – able to fully stand on their own feet/own accord
• Partial weight-bearing – able to stand but not able to put all their weight down (common in hip and knee surgeries)
• No weight-bearing – unable to stand or bear weight on their own

Step 3: Decide on your method:

For someone who is dependent or non-weight-bearing, you MUST use an assistive device to safely get them out of bed. A hoyer lift is the type of equipment you will need. They come in manual or electric options as well as  floor or ceiling options. If the hoyer device will be temporary, renting a it may be most beneficial. Go through your insurance company first. If the hoyer lift will be permanent, then adapting the floor layout, home modifications and adjusting the type of lift is necessary. 

For someone who is a partial assist, there are a variety of options. If you can safely get them to the edge of the bed on your own, there are sit-to-stand lifts, transfer boards and walkers that can safely allow them to pivot to a chair. A transport chair or light wheelchair is a preferred type of seating to transfer to in these cases. 

If you can’t safely get your loved one to the edge of the bed on your own, then look at adjustable bedframes/hospital bed options (for two-person beds, there are adjustable beds that offer different settings for both sides) so you can elevate the head of the bed prior to turning your loved ones legs to hang over the side of the bed. This eliminates you lifting them up and straining your back. 

Step 4: Learn proper body mechanics! 

You can’t care for your loved one if you are hurt. Always bend your knees/hips and keep your back straight. Lift with your legs (not your back), and keep your loved one as close to your body as possible (pretend you’re dancing!). NEVER twist. Here are some additional resources that offer direction on proper body mechanics: 

Body Mechanics During Transfers for Caregivers

Prevent Injury! Use Proper Body Mechanics for Lifting and Transferring

Always Talk to Your Physician 

If you anticipate your loved one will have issues getting out of bed, ask your physician for a Physical Therapy home health referral. A trained professional can assess your situation, provide recommendations, and discuss appropriate exercises. This should be covered by most major medical insurance policies. 

Visit our YouTube channel for talks around aging topics and to watch our Coffee Chats with Tiffany where RN Tiffany Rubin talks about matters you care about.

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